My spouse hides his money and all of his investments are hidden.
I have lived in Boston since 2006. I moved from New York and gave up my job of 16 years because we got married and I relocated, leaving my two adult children, who were 21 and 24. I divorced my first husband in 1998 and met my spouse in 2000. My husband, who is 70, will be retired four years in October. He spent most of his career in the U.S. Army Reserve, where he spent 24 years.
I see his mail from time to time, but he keeps everything locked up in a file cabinet. He gets four incomes per month, and everything goes…